Episode 85

full
Published on:

13th Feb 2023

Spice Up Your Sex Life with a Sex Life Bucket List | E85 Susan Bratton

Has the sexual chemistry in your relationship turned dull?

 

Bedroom boredom is a really common issue in relationships so it is nothing to beat yourself up about. We get comfortable in our patterns. The same positions, techniques, and places although great at first, become predictable and eventually boring.

 

I don’t need to ask a stupid rhetorical question here. I know you don’t want to have a boring sex life. Nobody wants that. So let’s reignite some excitement in the bedroom.

 

But we know it’s not that simple or we’d be doing it already. How do I talk to my partner about this and once they’re on board, what do we do to “spice things up?”

 

What if you had a list of ideas and someone to help bridge that conversation with you and your partner? Insert fan favorite guest, Susan Bratton, who first appeared on episode 63.

 

Susan is back on to share something she created to help us with this exact problem: a sex life bucket list. In this conversation, Susan will walk you through how to create and use your sex life bucket list.

 

Of course, if I have an hour with Susan, I’m not going to miss the opportunity to ask for some tips and techniques as well. We get into some hot and heavy conversations about ejaculatory choice, how to be louder in the bedroom, and how to share feedback to your partner that leaves them feeling encouraged.

 

Finally, if you’re lacking confidence in your body, you’ll want to stay tuned in until the end because Susan brings it home with a reassuring monologue.

 

Key Takeaways:

  • Why you should care about your sex if you want to live a healthy life
  • How to make a sexual offer that she says yes to
  • Ideas for erotic play dates
  • Using the Me Breathe to get ejaculatory choice
  • How to be louder in the bedroom
  • How to have better penis technique
  • How to share feedback to your partner that leaves them feeling encouraged
  • Building confidence in your body

 

Mentions:

Susan Bratton on TSIR Part 1: www.tsirpodcast.com/63

 

More of Susan:

www.sexlifebucketlist.com

www.FemaleLiquidOrgasm.com

www.gspotjoy.com

www.BetterLover.com

www.PumpingGuide.com

www.PersonalLifeMedia.com

www.SexualSoulmatePact.com

www.ExpandHerOrgasm.com

 

More of The Struggle is Real:

Find show notes and more at https://www.tsirpodcast.com/

Follow us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/tsirpod/

Show artwork for FI Minded: Achieve Financial Independence & Have Fun Doing It

About the Podcast

FI Minded: Achieve Financial Independence & Have Fun Doing It
Achieve Financial Independence & Have Fun Doing It
Want to achieve Financial Independence (FI) without missing out on life?

FI Minded is the podcast for anyone seeking financial freedom, time freedom, and a work-optional lifestyle — all while enjoying the journey along the way.

Whether you’re at the beginning of your FI journey or already deep into Coast FI or Slow FI, this show gives you practical strategies and insights to reach early retirement and design a life that aligns with your values, purpose, and fulfillment.

Popular topics include:
- FI Optimization Strategies: Actionable advice to reach Financial Independence faster without unnecessary stress.
- Work Optional & Lifestyle Design: How to transition from the corporate grind and build a life of freedom, flexibility, and intentional living.
- Time Freedom & Coast FI: Making the most of your time while still planning for the future, including mini-retirements, travel, and other ways to enjoy your life now.
- Post-FI Identity & Purpose: What to do once you’ve achieved FI, and how to create meaning beyond money.
- Burnout & Balance: Avoid the pitfalls of over-optimization and learn to balance saving for the future with mental health and happiness.

If you want to reach financial independence, design a life that’s purposeful and fun, and avoid burnout along the way, FI Minded is your guide to building a sustainable, fulfilling, and free life.

Some of our past guests include Carl Jensen (1500 Days), Jeremy Schneider (Personal Finance Club), Nick Loper (Side Hustle Show), Andrew Giancola (The Personal Finance Podcast), Jordan Grumet (Earn & Invest), Rachael Camp (Work Optional), Jillian Johnsrud (Retire Often), Sean Mullaney (FI Tax Guy), Jill Sirianni (Frugal Friends), Jackie Cummings-Koski (Catching Up to FI), Joel Larsgaard (How to Money), Cody Garrett (Measure Twice), Jesse Cramer (Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors), Jess (The Fioneers), Chris Hutchins (All The Hacks), Diania Merriam (EconoMe), and many more inspiring voices in the FI space.
Support This Show